“Pray over them each morning, even if you can just carve out
a couple of minutes right before they head out the door. Ask them what they
want God to do for them that day, and see how He answers that request during
the day.”
Not your average prescription from a doctor in the US. But
this is exactly, amongst other things, what was suggested we do for our boys
recently.
Liam and Julien are awesome kids who have taken their
parents call to missions in stride from our first in-person meeting with our
then recruiters (pic of me with Liam) – to give fair dues to the rather
unflattering picture of me, if I recall correctly Liam was maybe a month old at
this time.
Through the different church nursery practically every
Sunday for over a year with lots of strangers…
To the leaving of the familiar, and giving them a peculiar
paradigm of home forever starting at 18 months and 2 years old.
Yes, our boys have gone through many, many transitions in
their young lives. Not all of them pleasant, many of them hard enough to make
even grownups cry.
They have had to say goodbye to friends, knowing they may never
see them again. They continue to have to do this – This week, Liam had to say this kind of good bye to a
friend who he calls his “second best friend”, and whose family has been a
source of comfort and friendship for all of us. His “best friend” left a few months ago.
That is the nature of living in a mission community.
One challenge we have been working through is having two
children who are brilliant but have some learning difficulties. We are working
through various ideas and aides with the school, with their doctor and on our
own. I have a list started of things to look into the next time we are in the
US on furlough.
In the meantime, I am continually impressed and encouraged
by the others in our community that care for us and our boys. Teachers who pray
with us when we have meetings at the school, or sometimes in the store when
they see us and ask how things are going. Administrators who e-mail after
seeing one of our sons crying after school, to make sure he was okay and ask if
there was anything he could do to help. Friends who offer advice, tutoring or
just prayers and sympathy.
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